Why Gen Z fear they will raise a generation of ‘terribly behaved’ iPad kids, stoking TikTok debate about screen time
- The debate over how much screen time parents should allow their children is a long-running one previously applied to TV and video games. Now it is tablets
- Studies link too much screen time to poor sleep and negative effects on child development, but an expert group suggests restricting content, not use
Gen Z are getting nervous about parenting. Specifically, they’re worried about raising a generation of iPad kids.
The term “iPad kids” is used to refer to kids who are raised without restrictions on screen time, and they’re a popular topic of conversation on TikTok and other social media.
In fact, there’s an entire subset of TikTok videos – racking up millions of views – where users call out and mock iPad kids, sometimes by acting out their behaviours themselves.
Think screaming when their device is taken away, total lack of interest in speaking to others, and having no idea how to play with other toys.
TikTok user @gabesco, who has 2.9 million followers on the platform and says he’s 21 years old, posted a video about the topic online on November 8. It has since garnered more than 16 million views.
“I need everybody else from my generation to promise that we are not going to raise iPad children,” @gabesco says in the video.
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He also calls out parents for pacifying their kids with iPads instead of giving them attention. “You’re raising Gen Alpha, and they’re bizarre and terribly behaved,” he says.
TikTok user @hopeyoufindyourdad, who says she’s a Gen Z born and raised in the US state of Minnesota, recently posted a video on the topic . It’s been watched more than 3.8 million times.
“I think I speak for many of us when I say that Gen Alpha, or the iPad kid generation, is so far an absolute terrifying nightmare to deal with,” she wrote.
In the video, she says she’s been a nanny for children raised with unrestricted screen time. These kids, she says, are particularly challenging because they are not interested in creative activities.
“If you try and take an iPad out of an iPad kid’s hands, not only will they start throwing a tantrum so large, but they will start physically hitting you,” she said in her video.
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Sophie Puchulu, who posts on TikTok as @squishiesophie2 and has 1.5 million followers, shared a video with her own experiences. In the video, which has been watched more than 1.4 million times, she says she was exposed to adult content at a young age because she grew up with “unregulated internet access”.
“Adult men would message me, and then I would send inappropriate pictures back to them,” she said. “At the time I had no idea that was weird.”
“If you’re a parent, you need to be checking your kids’ phone, it doesn’t matter how much you trust them,” Puchulu added.
Not everyone is convinced there’s cause for concern. Some people online, for example, think Gen Z’s fears are just another iteration of an ongoing generation war.
“Not trying to start a culture war but much of online gen z culture seems to be about gen z exceptionalism & villainising all other generations,” one person wrote on X, formerly known as Twitter, in response to the viral TikTok videos.
“iPad kids, video games kids, TV kids, same hysteria. We’ve been there before,” another person wrote on TikTok.
The debate over how much screen time parents should allow their kids to have is a long-running one.
When researchers looked at over 60 studies from 1999 to 2014 on how screen time affects kids, they discovered that 90 per cent of those studies found that too much screen time was associated with poorer sleep.
The American Academy of Pediatrics says there isn’t enough evidence to support set screen time limits, which it stopped recommending in 2016. Instead, it now recommends rules focusing on avoiding particular types of content and parents watching content with their kids.
